Hair products that can keep a secret

When I was younger i had two hairstyles, messy cuz I hadnt cut it or bald cuz finally I cut it. As I matured and had a better job i realized i needed to find a hairstyle and finally comb! I tried many things but hair jell, and pomade were not my style, too shiny and middle school. While in the process of finding my style i found two products i cant run out of. They are basically the same,except price. The first one is Axe Whatever Messy Hair Paste, is great holds hair with no shine so it looks like your hair is just obedient all day long!, and its only about 7 dollars , the other product is American Crew Fiber, this product is a more mature version, great hold and matte look, so non of the shiny gel obsessed teenager look! At around 15 dollars.